The amount of discipline needed to seriously lock in is astronomical. It’s not fun, it’s boring, irritating and frustrating but it will be one of the greatest things you ever do for yourself
In the modern world’s fixation on monogamy versus polyamory, on marriage and children, we’ve lost sight of something major: lovers.
Freshly thirty and newly out of a three year relationship, I responded to these major life changes in the only way I knew how: I got on a flight to a foreign country and stayed gone for three months.
There’s a mysterious...